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So a couple of days ago my Mom and I cooked up this cute Pin There Done That blog meme idea. Then yesterday I had a bad case of blog committmentphobia. The thing that I like about my blog is that if I have something on my mind I type it out. I hope that it helps me remember this time of my life and because my family just had a big state to state move it is a nice way to keep in touch with friends from near to far.
What I don't like about blogging is for it to feel like something that I HAVE to do. Also - if I get 2 comments, 0 comments, 12 comments (my all time record) I could care less. I don't want to have to worry about how many links I get or likes or whatever. This is my little blog and you know what - love it or leave it - it is all good with me.
That said -
I still like the idea of Pin There Done That as a good way for me to keep track of what I have tried and pinterest and would love to have people join in. Soooooo - if you want to join in - please do. Post on Facebook if I am your Facebook friend, shoot me an email hollyo1@mac.com or leave a comment and I can link back to you or repost. I just can't wait to start looking at the actual practical applications of all of these great pins!!!!!!
Posted by iheartbowheads.blogspot.com at 6:08 PM 2 comments
Have you seen this pin?
I am having to just retype it here but I go look at the actual pin and follow Alicia on pinterest and on her blog because I heart her and she has tons of great ideas and pins. Anyway, she pinned this one that says
Pinterest:
Where women go to plan imaginary weddings, dress children that don't exist, and decorate homes we can't afford.
Now here is another one - actual pin here that I think is so funny and great:
Things I've learned from Pinterest
1. People like Nutella... a lot
2. Mustaches are still popular
3. This place is crawling with grammar police
4. Anything cute and fuzzy will be repinned.
5. Haters gonna hate
6. Fattening goodies are EVERYWHERE! (along with a lot of fitness inspiration....hmmmm)
7. People like Bacon.... a lot
8. Once you log on... you can never log off
9. Girls will always love pink, glitter, diamonds and anything else that sparkles.
10. There's a whole lot of "to do" lists that aren't getting done.
11. Pinning makes you feel creative and artsy even if you don't have an artistic bone in your body
What I'm still trying to figure out.....
How can I make a career out of being a "professional pinner"?
Thanks Wendy Russell for that one.
Now I know that you are wondering when I am going to finally get to my point. I actually do have a point and I am going to state it here.
I heart pinterest
BUT
I want to ACTUALLY do some of the fantastic stuff that I pin. Not just have another time sucker on the computer. (Cuz you know I really need another one of those.....)
So here goes:
I called up that Mimi, mother of yours truly, senior computing wiz and a blogger herself (go check out her blog for boomers and seniors HERE) and said, "Hey Ma, I need a button." (She really hearts it when I call her Ma I think). Anyway, I love what we came up with and here it goes.....
Now my goal for my new button is I am going to try to post pictures and/or pins of stuff that I ACTUALLY did from pinterest. I was kicking around starting one of those meme's like Kelly's Korner or one of the popular girls do but I am not sure if I can handle the rejection if no one links up so I guess we will see if we catch on. Anyway, stay tuned tomorrow for the first ever installment of
Posted by iheartbowheads.blogspot.com at 9:49 AM 3 comments
Hurts go away
Aches tend to stay
Chocolate really is medicinal
Alcohol really is not
Just keep washing. The dryer will eventually catch up.
Never, ever, EVER walk in front of a child pushing a grocery cart.
Fevers are good, puking is bad, you can survive head lice and they really do stop getting sick as much as they get older.
If you have a soccer chair in a bag on your shoulder and a toddler on the ground pitching a fit, set down said soccer chair BEFORE bending over to deal with aforementioned toddler or else the soccer chair in question will come swinging off of your shoulder straight into the face of said toddler with truly remarkable force.
This will not improve the toddler in questions mood.
Kiss your spouse every day.
Kiss your children every day.
In the beginning this is easy. Newlyweds and babies are very kissable. As people age it might not hurt to remind yourself to kiss them but I have found that as my loved ones grow bigger (and in my husband's case just older ;) that the kissing is all the more sweeter.
Do not ever say that you are looking forward to a quiet week. There is no quicker way to invite puking/huge household disaster/unexpected house guests to appear.
Do not ever, EVER, ever under any circumstances say,
"Oh well my (insert your angelic child's name here) would NEVER do that."
(Cuz guess what - they somehow have a magical way to hear you say that to someone and will think of something particularly shocking to horrify you with next week.)
If you burn dinner (not saying I have but you know - an example ;) no one needs to know. Calmly walk to your meal plan (I hate to break it to you because I know you obsess over your meal plan. Well I know that I do but the cold hard truth is that no one reads it but you.) Anyway, go to meal plan, cross of whatever burnt, write in grilled cheese, no one will be the wiser. This is the beauty of being the master of the meal plan - ultimate control.
If you are standing behind a child that is in a crouching position and you bend over to help the crouching child, for the love of all things painful, protect your nose at all costs.
Posted by iheartbowheads.blogspot.com at 12:30 PM 1 comments
So - I have been thinking of the "I never" philosophy. You know - when you say - "oh I NEVER...."
One of my oldest friends and I laugh sometimes because we remember distinctly me saying before my first child was born,
"I will NEVER let my child go with bare feet. I just don't get the whole thing with baby feet."
Fastforward 10 years and 3 babies later - ok I admit it - I get it. I have kissed my share of toes and my children have spent an enormous percentage of their lives barefoot. I totally get it. My bad.
When I married my husband, I said,
I do
I should have also said
and you know what?
I might
If you say......
I never
shovel snow or take out the trash. EVER. That is my husband's job and I REFUSE to cross that line
If your husband is in a horrific accident or has a terrible disease or a crazy week at work guess what?
You might
If you say.....
I never
let my kids eat unorganic/fast/insert whatever food horrifies you here
If you have a child get sick or you are stranded at a rest stop or you have a child that will literally only eat one color of foods (you would be amazed how often that happens)
Guess what?
You might
If you say.....
I never
ever ever ever would medicate a child for behavior issues
If you had a child who couldn't function in a classroom. Who is a danger to themselves or their family. Comes home from school crying every single day....
Guess what
You might
Luke 6:37 tells us
"Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.
It is so easy to look at what other people do and say
You Should
Oh I would never
I CANNOT believe (you know with the emphasis on the second syllable of cannot an octave higher)
I do wonder sometimes what others say about me and the way that I am living my life and raising my own but you know what - this is mine to do and my prayer for you is that you make your own decisions without worrying about the you should's and the I would never's because really - no one - no one but you - knows what it is to walk in your shoes. Even you do not know what it will be like to walk in your own shoes a month, a year, ten years from now.
Save yourself from the I never's and the you should's and go back to Kindergarten. Follow this one simple piece of advice that your teacher probably told you
Be Respectful
Be Polite
Work hard
Try harder
Be kind to your neighbor
There is so much ugliness and dissent out there - if we could all try and simplify. If we could all hear that grade school teacher's voice in our ear.
I think
It is possible
That the world could be a kinder place.

Posted by iheartbowheads.blogspot.com at 11:44 AM 1 comments
It may not have been my smartest move when I told the three five year old boys that they could cut and color all of the packaging from that big box........


Posted by iheartbowheads.blogspot.com at 5:23 PM 2 comments
Well - I gotta admit - we here at I Heart Bowheads (that would be me) don't really get terribly riled about stuff. Not a lot of drama. Not a lot of controversy. We (once again me - not sure why I feel the need to explain that) tend to keep it pretty light.
I do have the occasional rant in me and here it goes..........
This is not a rant telling you what to believe.
It is not a rant telling you what party to belong to or what issue you should back.
I will not even be expressing my own political beliefs in this post.
What I am going to rant about is........
BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY IN FRONT OF YOUR CHILDREN FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE!!!!!!!!
Back when I was in my Kindergarten classroom, I would do an election every year. I would talk about the three branches of government, the two major political parties and the election process as a whole. I would always send a note home explaining this to the parents in my classroom as well as assuring them that no political opinions were going to be presented to the class. Only an explanation of the process.
This would often spark a lot of political dialogue with my Kindergartners. This was especially true if it was an election year. As my own children got older, they started to ask questions about the process. My husband and I have been very careful to simply explain the process and what both sides believe. We do not tell our children who we each vote for and there are many times that my husband and I are on the same side of an issue or party aisle but I have to be honest - we are also often on opposite sides and we have talked about that.
That is the bleeping (scuse my language - you can tell that I am starting to get worked up - I am even typing faster;) BEAUTY of America.
The debate
The checks and balances
I encourage you to disagree
I encourage you to vote your own choice and then if you don't win - lobby, talk, picket if you want to to get re-elected next time but for heavens sake.....
BE RESPECTFUL OF THE OFFICE WHILE YOU ARE DOING IT!!!!!!!!!!!!
No joke - no exaggeration - here are some of the things that children either in my classroom or in my home have asked me.
Mrs. Bowhead- what's a communist? Cuz my Daddy says (such and such political character) is one of those?
Mrs. Bowhead - what's a moron? Cuz my Mommy says (such and such political character) is a big one.
Mommy Mommy - My friend (insert friend's name here) says that if (such and such political character) becomes president he is going to take all of our money!!!!!!!!!!!!! We need money - right? What are we going to do if he takes all of our money?
Mrs. Bowhead - why does (such and such political character) not love everyone? Why do they only love the rich people?
Well my Daddy says that we don't have to listen to him and I don't have to watch his speech on television that is telling me to stay in school and work hard.
REALLY????????????????????
Now I could go on and on with the quotes but I believe you get my point. I would also like to remind you before you go getting yourself all riled up that my quotes also go back ten years which (if you will remember) spans both political parties in power.
Like I said - this is not telling you what to believe. This is not telling you what to feel strongly about. This post is telling you what I feel strongly about and you know what I feel strongly about? Do you? Do you? (Can you tell I am typing fast again? Frank the pug is sitting here next to me watching me with some fascination wondering what is happening with the flying fingers but anyway - I digress.......)
Teach your children to respect the system.
Teach your children to respect the OFFICE.
How can you not teach your children to respect the OFFICE OF THE PRESIDENT OF THE UNITED STATES? You do not have to like the man. You do not have to support the party but respect the office. Respect the process.
Use words like.....
Disagree
Feel strongly about
Let's write a letter to our congressman
Please do not use words like
Moron
Idiot
Dumb as a box of rocks
Remember - your children are listening to you. They are watching you and hate and dis-respect can be learned in the most unlikely of places.
They are standing at your feet in the church hall when you are chatting quietly with your neighbor.
They are playing on the floor of the kitchen while you are on the phone.
They are in the other room while you are cussing (I mean loudly disagreeing) with the TV.
Teach them to debate. Teach them to become involved. Please do not teach them to hate the other side.
The other side, in my humble opinion is what makes the country so great. Because we get to have an other side.......
Posted by iheartbowheads.blogspot.com at 6:35 AM 4 comments